As I keep looking through my tumblr I see these things that really make me upset. One recently is one of a girl complaining that she isn't pretty and he friend disagreeing and then the girl listing all the reasons she isn't pretty. And that just pisses me off. They're stupid things like "Oh, I only get text messages from my parents," and "I don't get likes on my pictures I put on Facebook."
The thing is, there are SO many worse things in the world. So what if you don't get a million texts a day (and if you did I bet you'd be annoyed by that.) and so what if you get hundreds of likes on a picture, Facebook likes don't determine what you're worth.
Besides, why would you want to be friends with someone who is constantly worrying about how they look and how other people perceive them. It becomes annoying after a while. You don't have to be perfect to find that one person you're meant for. Because when you find each other, you'll not notice all the things that are make them "ugly," you'll only notice the good things and they'll only notice your good things.
I hope people don't honestly think that just because some one says something mean about them that everyone is going to forever remember them like that, because most likely, they're not. Most likely if you talk to your friends you'll realize how much you actually mean to them and that it doesn't matter if you have the latest clothes or are the "pretty" friend. What matters is that you're interesting and intelligent and a caring person.
No on wants to be remembered as the person who cared about how they looked all the time when they leave their school, (at least I wouldn't want to.), but people will remember your actions. So make those count.
And remember that just because you don't think you're pretty it doesn't mean that no one is ever going to love you and you're going to be alone forever, because you're not. You're going to find the right person at the right time and everything is going to work out.
Love,
Natalie
The thing is, there are SO many worse things in the world. So what if you don't get a million texts a day (and if you did I bet you'd be annoyed by that.) and so what if you get hundreds of likes on a picture, Facebook likes don't determine what you're worth.
Besides, why would you want to be friends with someone who is constantly worrying about how they look and how other people perceive them. It becomes annoying after a while. You don't have to be perfect to find that one person you're meant for. Because when you find each other, you'll not notice all the things that are make them "ugly," you'll only notice the good things and they'll only notice your good things.
I hope people don't honestly think that just because some one says something mean about them that everyone is going to forever remember them like that, because most likely, they're not. Most likely if you talk to your friends you'll realize how much you actually mean to them and that it doesn't matter if you have the latest clothes or are the "pretty" friend. What matters is that you're interesting and intelligent and a caring person.
No on wants to be remembered as the person who cared about how they looked all the time when they leave their school, (at least I wouldn't want to.), but people will remember your actions. So make those count.
And remember that just because you don't think you're pretty it doesn't mean that no one is ever going to love you and you're going to be alone forever, because you're not. You're going to find the right person at the right time and everything is going to work out.
Love,
Natalie
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